Parents are powerful figures in their children’s growth, vividly evident from their encouragement from the sidelines during games. Their influence goes further than what is seen in the moment but begins much earlier. Their guidance, motivation and unwavering support build their child’s mental fortitude. These defining moments help the athlete stay grounded, calm and ready to take on the pressures of the game.
Having family attend sports games is crucial to the success of student athletes. Seeing empty bleachers might leave players feeling discouraged, negatively affecting their performance. In comparison, bleachers full of supportive family members can significantly boost team morale, putting the team in a positive headspace where they can succeed in the face of challenges.
Although cheering at games is crucial, ensuring students make it to practices and games on time makes the team complete, positively impacting the other teammates as well.
“Whether it’s getting them to practices, tryouts or auditions, parents make sure that their kid is there,” physical education teacher Ray Wright said. “One of the biggest supports parents can give to their child is to ensure their consistent attendance.”
Parents’ presence isn’t only felt at the competitions, but also in the background. With injuries frequent among athletes, parents play a vital role in the recovery process. They help their children come back from lower points in life by being an anchor and source of comfort. Parents also provide support by finding ways to improve student performance during games.
“My parents attend every game and record them so I can review them and improve,” junior and varsity water polo player Jayden Yang said. “They also cook meals tailored to give me the energy I need.”
Advice and guiding words from parents provide athletes with mental encouragement that is crucial for them to build confidence to help them tackle the challenges they face.
“My parents give me a lot of support — especially when I don’t feel confident in myself — by helping me realize that I can push through it,” sophomore and varsity tennis player Natalie Tan said.
Parents’ unconditional love serves as a foundation of trust for their children to express their emotions during periods of burnout and high stress. A single small comment can brighten their day or add support, and it goes to show how impactful their words truly are.
“It’s helpful to know that there are people who believe in you, and know you’ll do better next time,” Lee said.
Although the landscape of sports is always changing, the presence of parents and their support has lasting impacts on student athletes. Parent support helps children succeed not only in the playing field but also as future individuals.
“My parents have their own expectations of me, which pushes me,” said junior and varsity cross country and track and field runner Nathan Kato. “But in the end, it’s all support; they’re supportive of me and understand even if I don’t do my best.”
